Learning How We Talk: Important Steps in Growing Up

 
 
 


Understanding how we talk and use words is super cool!

It starts when we're born and continues as we grow up. It's really important for parents, teachers, and caregivers to know about the steps because it helps them to know if kids need extra help.

In this blog, we'll check out how kids learn to talk, what they do at different ages, and what to do if they need a little more help. Let's explore this fun journey together!

Check out these common speech and language skills kids usually have at different ages:

0-3 Months

  • Smiles when they see people they know

  • Moves at loud sounds

  • Gets quiet and smiles when you talk

  • Makes cooing sounds

  • Changes their cry for different needs (hungry, upset)

4-6 Months

  • Moves eyes in the direction of sounds

  • Responds to changes in your voice

  • Looks at toys that make sound

  • Pays attention to music

  • Coos and babbles

  • Makes babbling sounds like pa, ba, and ma

  • Laughs

  • Makes sounds when happy or upset

7-12 months

  • Turns and looks in the direction of sounds

  • Looks where you point

  • Looks or makes a noise when you call their name

  • Understands common items

  • Plays games with you (i.e., peek-a-boo)

  • Babbles long strings of sounds (i.e., babababa, and dadada)

  • Uses gestures (i.e., waving, and pointing)

  • Imitates different speech sounds

  • Has 1-2 words by 1 year

1-2 Years

  • Points to and names a few body parts

  • Follows 1-step directions

  • Responds to simple questions

  • Points to pictures in a book when named

  • Uses a lot of new words

  • Uses p, b, m, h, and w in words

  • Starts to name pictures in a book

  • Asks questions

  • Puts 2 words together by 2 years

2-3 Years

  • Understands opposites

  • Follows 2-step directions

  • Understands new words quickly

  • Has a word for almost everything

  • Talks about things that are not in the room

  • Uses k, g, f, t, d, and n in words

  • Uses 2-3 words

  • People who know them can understand them

  • Asks why questions

  • Uses words like in, on, and under

3-4 years

  • Responds when you call them from another room

  • Understands words for some colors, shapes, and words for family

  • Answers simple who, what, and where questions

  • Says rhyming words

  • Uses pronouns

  • Uses some plural words

  • Is understood by most people

  • Asks when and how questions

  • Puts 4 words together

  • Talks about what happened during the day

  • Produce v, s, j, ch, l, sh, and z

4-5 Years

  • Understands words for order

  • Understands words for time

  • Follows longer directions

  • Follows classroom directions

  • Hears and understands most of what they hear at home and in school

  • Says all speech sounds in words

  • Responds to " what did you say"

  • Names letters and numbers

  • Uses sentences that have more than 1 action word.

  • Tells a short story

  • Keeps a conversation going

  • Talks in different ways, (i.e. louder outside than inside)

Understanding how kids learn to talk and use words is super important for parents, teachers, and caregivers like you. It helps us to help kids grow their language skills. When we know what to look for as kids learn to talk, we can see how they're doing and if they might need some extra help.

But remember, every kid learns at their own speed, so not every kid reaches the same milestones at the same time. The stuff we talk about here is a general idea of what most kids do. If you're worried about how your child is talking, don't worry! We're here to help!

When we help out early, it really makes a big difference! Getting help quick can make things much easier for kids. Let's cheer on kids as they learn to talk and make sure they get the help they need. Together, we can make a big difference in how kids talk and feel!

References

  1. American Speech-Language-Hearing Association. (n.d.). How does your child hear and talk? Retrieved from https://www.asha.org/public/speech/development/01/

  2. Hanen Centre. (n.d.). Warning signs. Retrieved from https://www.hanen.org/Helpful-Info/When-You-Are-Concerned/Warning-Signs.aspx

 
Rachael Nelson

I am a Speech-Language Pathologist, whose mission is to help children find their voice and empower them to communicate through positive, family-centered, and evidence-based therapeutic intervention. Message me or call me for more details.

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